I think the break up is something different for every people, are many things that can influence in relationship and more the brake up. The friendship is something of two persons and if one don't feel comfortable is better go on for separate ways so that no one gets hurt. Like I say before is different for every person. Everthing EVERTHING depends of your heart and how you feel with that person once was more than a friend y what he´s feel with you. That's just my opinion. The answer are in your heart :) Peace
Juan C
28-02-2011 20:33
I'm agree with this topic, i think that before setting a relationship we need to know each other and have a certain degree of trust, and be sure that this person who you will be in a relationship is the ideal to keep this relationship.
And not matter if the break up is painful, and the couple end up breaking they friendship as well, they have to know how to deal with this and keep in touch.
Angélica Mohamad
28-02-2011 19:49
What I really think is that couples after the break up they really should spend some time apart, 'cause in that time they'll know if they really miss each other as a friend and not a lover anymore. A break up it's never easy but if the couple really wish to keep the friendship they'll can put the past away and make a new start, just forgiving and forgetting if it's necessary. But the real problem is the mature of the couple, how are they gonna take the break up? Will they be able to forget their problems of the past as a lovers? As I said before, if the couple really loves each other as a friends , the relationship will be peaceful and joyful and who knows? Maybe the things could be as they were before if they really want them to be because I know there is no winners in a separation, just pain but the time can heal anything (or so they say) so, the person must keep a optimistic view of the future, and stay out of the way of crazy ideas as living of memories because at the end it won't do no good, just keep their thoughts as one of the nostalgics and even depressive person.
What I really trying to say is that: people always have to look the brightside of the things and forgetting the bad. Keep the good things in mind and forgive others for the troubles or pain they could cause you just in that way you will be happy and you will be able of be friends with any person that you'd like it to be.
Marcos Bitter
28-02-2011 19:21
I totally agree: a couple which faced a break up should continue being friends. The things what happened in their relationship should not interfere with the friendship that they probably had in the past.The problem is how to deal with the feelings that still lie inside their hearts. The answer to this question is doing the right thing, maybe decisions have to be taken with the head instead of the heart.
Andrea Almeron
28-02-2011 19:04
well i´m completely agree wiht this topic, I personally think that in order that a relation takes
the best way, is important considered aspects as it are the respect, communication, confidence etc.
Also I think that the friends can manage to share any type of relation not only of pair if not something that goes beyond, since many friends are the brothers that we can choose. Good this one is my opinion I hope that understands it. Good nights.
Diego Zarraga
28-02-2011 19:00
My opinion is: knowing that a relationship may end for various reasons, and can be very painful, we must give some time to heal those wounds and perhaps then think you can establish a friendship or not, think all that was passed along if it was a relationship almost perfect but for personal reasons is over, "I feel great to continue as friends", but as the text if it ends badly is better than each one going his own way
Remember that life brings us many surprises and later that person will come to our eyes will be perfect and thanks to that person could find true love. "Before all else, guard your heart"
Gabriela calcano
28-02-2011 18:21
I agree with this topic, I think that before Staying friends after a break up, the couple should think in a mature way about what will be the best for both. If for any reason the friendship after the breakup isn’t work, they have to wait a long while to think about what they do wrong and think about if keep remain friends would be a good idea. In another way, if both want to break with the relationship, they just have to try to keep a good friendship.
Leonela Díaz
28-02-2011 18:20
Hi teacher :) Well,I'm in total agree about this topic. I personally believe that in a relationship the persons must be a true friends before to be a couple, 'cause before involved in a relationship you must know the person well and be sure it's the right person, and what better way to be friends first. Doing this will allow the couple to have a good relationship and allow them, if they end, then end in good condition.
I think these tips you gave us are really applicable and, well, would help us greatly in our "dating" xD.
Well teacher, that's what I think and then hopefully get a good grade:) Hahaha, good night.
